comfortablegatheringslikeadinnerpartyamongfriendstobig,
intimdating
crowd
scenes
like
a
Washington
cocktail
party.
In
betweenareeventslikeweddingsandBarMitzvahs
．
Eachone
isdifferentbuttheprinciplesofconversationarethesame
：
be
open,
find
the
common
ground
with
your
partner,
and
always
listen.
社交场合有大有小
,
小的有温馨舒适的三五个朋友间的聚餐晚会
大
的有聚者芸芸的华盛顿鸡尾酒宴
不大不小的有婚礼和成年仪式。场合
虽有不同
但交谈准则却
是一致的：坦率、寻找你和谈话对象的共同点、
随时注意倾听。
TheGreatestQuestionofAllTime
Remember,
asking
questions
is
secret
of
good
curious
about
everything
if
at
party
I
bring
that
curiositv
me.
often
ask
my
favorite
question
"Why
？
"
If
man
tells
me
he
his
family
are
moving
to
another
city
A
woman
changingjobs
"SomeonerootsfortheMets
"why
OnmytelevisionshowIprobablyusethatwordmorethan
anyother.Itisthegreatestquestioneverasked,alwayswillbe
anditiscertainlythesurestwayofkeepingaconversationlively
andinteresting.
最佳话题
记住
提问是促成良好谈话的秘诀。我对任何事物部
觉得新鲜有趣
参加鸡尾酒宴也不忘带上好奇心。“为什么”常常是我偏爱的问题。