Everyoneneedsfriends.Afriendcangiveushelpandshareourdifficultiesandhappiness.Buthowcanwemakefriends
First,tomakefriends,youmustbefriendlytoothers.Smileatothersandyouaresuretogetasmileinreturn.Youshouldtrytomakeastrangerfeelathomewhereverhehappenstobe.Thinkmoreofothersthanofyourselfandneverjudgeapersonbyhisappearanceandclothes.
Second,friendsshouldnegotiateinsteadofquarrel.
Whenyoudon’tagreesomeone,pleasediscusswithhim.
Finally,neverbelieveinthosewholeaveyouwhenyouareintrouble.Andneverleaveyourfriendwhenheisintrouble.Remember,afriendinneedisafriendindeed.
Friendsshouldbefaithfultoeachother.Solongasyoucanputyourfriend’sinterestsinfrontofyours,youwillhavealotofgoodfriends.(162words)
如何交朋友
人人都需要、朋友.朋友可以给我们以帮助,与我们共事困难和快乐.但是,怎样交朋友呢
交朋友首先要对别人友善.你对别人微笑;肯定别人也会报以微笑.要使陌生人感到亲切,关心别人要比:关心自己为重,决不以貌取人.
其次,朋友之间应该商量而不是争吵.当与别人有分歧时,要和他一起讨论.
最后,不要相信那些在危急关头背离你的人,也不要在朋友危难时离开他.记住:患难之中见真情.朋友应该以诚相待.只要你把朋友的利益置于你的利益之上,你就会拥有好多好朋友.
Everyoneneedsfriends,andifyoufailtomakefriends,youshouldexamineyourselfandseeifthereissomethingwrongwithyourpersonality.
人人都需要朋友,若你在交朋友方面总是失败,就该反省自己,看是否你的个性有什么问题。
Maybeyouhavesocialfaultssuchassnobbishness,talkativenessandusingslangetc.whichdriveawayyournewacquaintances.Whateveryoursocialfaultsmaybe,lookatthemhonestlyandmakerealefforttocorrectthem.
或许你有些在社交上应该避讳一些缺点,比如势力、饶舌、说脏话等,这些都会妨碍你结交新朋友。无论你有什么社交缺点,都该正视它们,尽力摒弃。
Tobefriendlyyoumustfeelfriendly.Cheerfulnessisthebasisoffriendliness.Acheerfulpersonsmiles.Asmileisamagnetwhichdrawspeople.Smileatsomeoneandyouarealmostsuretogetasmileinreturn.
要友善,你一定要给人友好的感觉:快乐是友善的基础。一个快乐的人总会面带微笑。微笑好似有吸引力的磁铁,你对别人微笑,你也会得到他微笑的回报。
无论在哪里,友善之人都会让陌生人有居家般自在舒适的感觉,设身处地为陌生人考虑,让他有备受欢迎的感觉。
Trytoremembernames.Itmakesyournewacquaintancesfeelhappywhenyoucallthembytheirnames.Itgivesthemthefeelingthattheyhavemadeanimpressiononyouandthatmeansomethingtothembecauseyourememberthem.
尽量记住人名。对新认识的朋友直呼其名会令他们很高兴,他们会觉得你对他有了一定的印象,这说明你记住了他们,这对他们很重要。
若在某件事上你不能与别人达成一致意见,你该表现出友好。可以讨论,但不要争吵。争吵过甚会使你失去朋友。
友善之人常为他人考虑,不会为自己争取“权力”。不顾及别人的人,他的朋友寥寥无几。
最后,切勿以社会地位论人。真正的友善之人往往尊重别人。
Forsome,it’seasytomakenewfriendsinschoolbecausetheyareoutgoing.Butforsomeothers,itseemsdifficult.Herearesometipstomakefriends.
对有些人来说,在学校交友很容易,因为他们很外向,
Firstly,bepositiveandoutgoing.Onlywhenyouarepositiveandoutgoing,otherswouldliketotalktoyouandthenmakefriendswithyou.Secondly,developsomeinterests.It’seasierforpeopletomakenewfriendswhenyouhavecommoninterests.Theycansupplytopicstodiscuss.Thirdly,beagoodlistener.Letpeopletalkaboutthemselvesbeforeyoutalkingaboutyourself.Finally,trytohelpyourfriendswhentheyareintrouble,becauseafriendinneedisafriendindeed.